I hope that as you read this blog, it takes you away from whatever stressors you have today or your mundane routine that you obviously needed a break from (sorry you chose to read my blog instead of something more interesting.) I’m sure that some things that I will expose about myself or my life will entertain you or make you laugh while other things may cause you to cringe or make the ugh face. I stand firm on the things that I believe in but will not try to convince you of them and I will continue to be unapologetically me and give it to you raw.
So why “The Bearess of Bad News with a Makeover?” Simple, I’ll deliver some awful topics and experiences that no one likes to discuss and give you a spin on it which I consider the makeover. It’s almost like delivering the bad news and than smoothing it over with the good news (we all have a friend or know someone that does that).
I’m a habitual hot mess mommy of a one year old baby girl and five months pregnant to a boy. My husband is nine years younger than me (crowd cheering “cougar”) and is a work in progress with an old soul whom I absolutely love. I’m 34 years young and am a seasoned bullshitter to myself. They always say “fake it till you make it,” well no matter how bad things get, I always say it gets better which at times I even know is a total crock of shit. But hey if that’s what gets me through each day, than so be it. I’m sure we all have our own vice that gets us through our own self everyday. Aside from being a full-time stay at home mommy and housewife, I am a freelance makeup artist and a lash artist, mastering my skills in the beauty industry for over 15 years. Since having my first baby, I scaled back tremendously on work and focused on my family. Now I’m trying to get my groove back.
This blog is for people that want to feel like Carrie Bradshaw but live the life of Lucille Ball, for those that secretly hide in their closets and cry or curse into a pillow, the moms and dads that sit in the car in front of their house for 20 minutes deciding if they are ready for the chaos, for the ones that wanted to take a” Louieville Slugger to both headlights” of their partners car after finding out that they were cheated on and the moms that are looking to get their sexy back. Jay Shetty, one of the best motivational speakers ever (I think), is all about “Making Wisdom Go Viral.” Part of my blog is to motivate people and help be part of the movement to “make wisdom go viral” but I also want people in similar scenarios or experiences to not feel alone. I know I looked for people in similar situations or a person to look up to so that I could feel human again and connected to a similar community. It gave me hope that things would look up. After all, we all want to get through our own dilemmas and come out on top.
I’ll be talking about being a wife, mom life, beauty and booty. So get ready, because the Bearess is ready to get personal with you!